Sunday, May 10, 2009

Happy Mother's Day!



Dear Family and Friends,

Happy Mother’s Day! I once heard that Mother’s Day is the busiest day of the year for the phone company, so I called my mama yesterday to be sure I got through. See what a good daughter I am.

This week contained an array of events, some documented on film and others left to the imagination. Monday evening, I attended a missionary orientation for the Pfisters. This included the answers to questions like, “What should I take with me when driving?” and “What do I do if my dog bites someone or kills someone’s animal?” (Answers: Your license, identity card, money, water, tool kit, and first aid kit AND pay, pay, pay.) I learned a few things as well, like where to buy fresh fish and the natural dangers of Haiti including, but not limited to, black widow spiders and scorpions. (This was later validated when Sheila found a good-sized scorpion in her shower. Ewwww. And I repeat, EWWWW!!) Other areas covered: What to do when you have an accident, dealing with beggars, food preparation, and cultural expectations for weddings and funerals.

Tuesday, Sheila and I hosted tea. We served peanut butter popcorn, ham and cheese bites, chocolate butterscotch cookies, mangos, watermelon, and juice. We had a very nice turnout. Before tea, I went into town with Tess and Andrew to do some clothes shopping. Andrew really didn’t have any dressy clothes to wear to church, and Haitians always look very sharp when attending, so Tess and I took him shopping on the Kennedy. The Kennedy is a few streets in Cayes with masses of clothing, like an outdoor Goodwill or Salvation Army. In fact, many of the clothes on the Kennedy come from those places. It got its name from JKF who began sending huge bales of clothing to Haiti when he was President as part of our charity to the poorest country in our hemisphere. The name stuck. It’s not quite like Target or Wal-Mart, but Tess and Alisha are amazing at finding good deals among all the rubbish. It’s like a gigantic garage sale. The only difference is bartering madly with the vendors and stepping over ditches full of sewer water to check out a size on a shirt....otherwise, totally the same.

A bunch of the teenagers on the compound came over on Tuesday night to play a few games. There was much gaiety and competition. The game of Spoons got semi-violent and Pictionary became an all out rumble. Good times.

Wednesday, Volker had the Bible study on Jesus: The Crown and the Cross. It was inspiring! A medical team lead by Dr. Keith Knepp came in on Wednesday, as well. They spent the next two days working at mobile clinics and seeing patients. Thursday was a little bit of a catch-up day for me with nothing of interest to report except that I had a ham and cheese sandwich for supper and went to sleep early.

Friday, I was getting ready for work when Rich called with a babysitting request. He needed to take a few of his LSM kids to the mobile clinic and Amber wanted to ride along. They took Silas, and I took the four others. We watched two short movies (one about motorcycles and the other about lumberjacks), took a short ride to Simon for cookies and drinks, a long 4-wheeler ride through some rather deep mud puddles, and a nice stroll to visit the Gutweins and introduce Daisy (the Pfister’s new puppy) to Bella (the Gutwein’s new kitty). I was having a late lunch around two that afternoon when Val came over to borrow my 4-wheeler. As I went to get the keys, I heard her say, “Oh, there’s smoke in your house. Oh, we have a fire!” Sure enough, there was a fire in my bathroom. As it turns out, an uncapped ground wire accidentally got charged by touching a live wire, sparked, and started to burn. It didn’t do much harm; my house is made of concrete. Rod Wray came over and check it out, declared it very unusual, and recommended capping all the wires in the box. I readily agreed.

Saturday, Dr. Keith and his team members gave us an excellent session on first aid and emergency care. We learned the ABC’s (airway, breathing, cardiac) to help an unconscious person, moving and stabilizing a person after a fall, how to treat heat stroke, and how to stop bleeding just about anywhere. It was very informative, although I hope we never have to use it. Saturday afternoon, I went to Rainbow beach with the team. It was a stellar afternoon; the water was clear and the sun was bright. We had a singing on the Pfister porch that evening. It was nice to pull out the Hymns of Zion and sing some old favorites.

Sunday morning, I listened to Bluffton North services (Hannah and Samuel in honor of Mother’s Day). We all met up for lunch at the Nami and then proceeded to Azile Dorcus, the nursing home in Cayes. It’s definitely not a Christian Care, but the residents do receives meals, beds, and medical care. We planned an outing to Jelly Beach for the residents. It’s very close to Cayes and the local church helped to host our party. The residents thoroughly enjoyed themselves! One man hadn’t been out since 2004! They simply don’t have the staff or vehicles to take their residents anywhere enjoyable. Nearly all the residents ended up in the water at some point; it was a blessing for me to witness their pleasure and contentment while enjoying the ocean.



I don’t know what this week holds for me, but I know I can rest in the knowledge that God is in control. Blessings,

Abby




Sunday, May 3, 2009

The Island of Cows...and Mangos

Yes. I know I missed a week, but it’s hard to blog on “The Island of Cows.” That would be Illavach, and trust me, I stepped in enough of their poo while trekking from village to village to fully believe that the name is appropriate and justified.

The last two weeks have gone fast. I spent some quality time with the Pfister kids. We took a little field trip to Tet Simon where the kids played in the pond fed by an artesian well. It’s good for me to spend time with fresh eyes. Everything is still an adventure, fun and exciting. They invigorate my perspective of Haiti; I sometimes only see the dust and poverty. We painted sun catchers on my porch, snacked on popcorn and peanut butter M&Ms (Thanks, Ann!), watched a movie, jumped on the trampoline, took a 4-wheeler ride, and played in the tree house.

Two weeks ago, the MEBSH church in Simon hosted the Convention. It’s a bit like our elder conference. It draws huge crowds of people from all over – pastors, deacons, teachers, and church members come to hear speakers, praise God for the past year, and plan for the next. Our generally small village of Simon became a beehive of activity – vendors set up shop in every nook and cranny selling drinks, rice and beans, fried plantains and breadfruit, clothes, books, bags, and shoes. I wanted to attend one of the many services, just for the experience, and I did – for exactly 10 minutes. It took me that long to realize that the Simon church was only going to get hotter and tighter with more and more people, and since it was already stifling (at 9 AM), I decided I had experienced enough of the Convention and went home. Amber, Katelyn, and I went into town that morning and took a little tour of the action in Cayes.

Saturday, I headed to Illavach with a work team led by Anne Nelson, the daughter of Bob and Vera Stewart. Vera Stewart is the founder of Child Care. She turned 80 this year. Her name is still spoken reverently inside the walls of the office. Anne is amazing and her team was wonderful. I want to be Anne when I grow up. She travels the world doing pro-life seminars, speaking for and defending the unborn. She is fluent in Creole and French and has an excellent sense of humor. I loved watching Anne and David work together, the strength and playfulness in their marriage. It is such a testimony of God’s love.

At the first job site, Madam Bernard, we ladies built 10 church benches and the men put a new, larger roof on the church. The team showed the Jesus film in Creole on Sunday night and a National Geographic film titled “In the Womb” on Monday night. The second film was in English, so Anne had to interpret various parts, but a picture is worth 1000 words, in English or Creole. The whole birthing process didn’t need much narration...

We took another boat to the second site, Castra, and worked on a school building. The men were incredibly fast workers, so we had nearly an entire afternoon on Wednesday to visit some interesting sites on Illavach. We hiked to a resort area called Port Morgan. It’s very beautiful and very pricey. We had a wonderfully relaxing afternoon on the beach, free of charge, and hiked back. Illavach may have a lot of cows, but it has even more hills and valleys, and I only brought flip-flops...because I’m stupid. Let me tell you about the mud...oh, never mind. You almost have to experience Haitian mud mixed with incredibly steep slopes and flip-flops to get it, but imagine mud in your hair as the end result.

Illavach also has a lot of mangos. Actually, it’s mango season, so everyone has a lot of mangos. At both sites, we had beautiful mango trees to sit under for shade, but you have to be careful. One good gust of wind and you’re likely to get whacked with a mango fruit. In any case, the highlight of my Thursday was a shower and clean clothes. I went to work that afternoon and caught up on my letters and such, then joined the team for supper at the Nami. It was sad to see them go on Friday, and I sincerely hope they will be back for more next year. Friday was a holiday in Haiti, something like our Labor Day. I spent the whole day doing the rankest laundry I’ve every produced, cleaning my bathroom, re-potting my dying plants, and answering emails. I felt very accomplished by the end of the day.

Saturday, Tess, Alisha, and I went to HaitiVert (Haiti Green). It’s a horticulture, botany show in Berguard, a little east of Cayes. It was worth seeing. The organizers have mapped out a picturesque hike through the various plants and trees of Haiti. They have universities that specialize in agriculture and agronomy come and sell plant starts and tools of the trade. It had a distinctively fair-like feeling with food booths, Haitian arts and crafts, jams and jellies, jewelry, and snacks. I bought an aloe vera plant and something purple and pretty that looked hardy – I’ll Google it later. Just as we finished with our tour, the skies opened up and drenched us. As we were already soaked from the ride home on the 4-wheeler, we decided to make the most of it and played in the rain puddles for a while. Two of the Christenson kids were having a birthday party, and the 20 or so little guests were having a wild time sliding on a huge, soapy tarp in the rain. It looked so fun, we had to try it. I’ll get some pictures from Heather for next week, but I fear that a nearly 30 year-old gal flopping awkwardly on a tarp is not as attractive as I think it is in my mind. We’ll see...

Today, Tess, Alisha, Andrew, and I went to Renault for the feeding program and Sunday school. Then, we all piled into the new Toyota and went to Port Salut for the afternoon. It was fun to hold little Faith in the water and play in the sand with Gabriel and Derek. After my third shower of the day, I decided to catch you all up on my escapades from the last two weeks. I hope you enjoy the pictures. I’m off to eat my supper – mangos!

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Abby

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Welcome to Haiti!

Dear Family and Friends,

It's quiet today....too quiet. No horns, no loud buses, no shouts from the village below our house, no magnified church worship drifting up the hill, no hubbub of humanity. It's election day and all private cars have been ordered off the streets. The UN is out in full force to keep the peace; I heard four helicopters yesterday close to Cayes. So far, so good.

My week started with a bang. On Monday morning, bright and early, I headed up to Child Care and happened to be the first one there, not terribly shocking as I still operate on Western time schedule, which involves being on time for work. As usual, I had to unlock the two padlocks and the regular door. The padlocks are protected by metal covers, so I have to reach up into them, find the key hole at the bottom of the padlock, and twist it correctly to open the lock - without being able to see anything. No problem - most of the time. The bottom padlock opened just fine, but I have to shove it up to the top of the metal cover in order for it to unlatch from the door. (Check out the pictures and this will make much more sense.) Monday, that lock would not shove up. So, with great gusto, I smacked it up hard and guess what fell out with my padlock? That's right - a huge tarantula! It's shocking that I didn't get bit. Here I was with my hand up in the metal cover, jabbing at it with the padlock, and squishing it further and further up into the metal cover. It's a wonder it didn't go for me, but maybe it just didn't have enough room to get its fangs to my hand. It was that big. I'll admit it - I shrieked like a little girl when that tarantula fell out (slightly injured) and danced around for a while. Yucko! Like two seconds later, Cresnel (the killer of Bob, Jr. and our yard man) arrived at Child Care and I said, "Touye li, souple! Mesi." Kill it, please. Thank you. Not 20 seconds later, I walked into the office to find a lizard resting comfortably on my printer. I see lizards all day long, and I have never had an issue with them, but seriously! I feel like I'm working in a friggin' zoo.

It's been the week of tarantulas. I opened a drawer in my bedroom a little later in the week, only to find a nice sized one in there. This is a rarity. I've only ever seen one in the house (a little one in a kitchen cupboard), but this was in my bedroom! Alisha came and sprayed it with Baygon, the equivalent of Hot Shot in the States, my old friend for wolf spiders. It was quite the commotion. I watched it shrivel up and felt a great deal of pleasure. I would never kill one outside, but this one was so bold as to infringe upon my only safe spot. It had to die.

Aside from the exceptional number of animal encounters this week, the Pfisters arrived safe and sound in Haiti. They hit the ground running! I've been fortunate to spend some time with them and their children this past week. Katelyn, Will, Seth, Kendra and Silas are sweet kids and very fond of 4-wheeler rides. On Thursday, we jumped on the trampoline, took a ride on the quad, played with Legos, and checked out the construction on their house. It seems like they are adjusting well to Haiti.

Friday marked the end of an era. In a three hour ceremony, Luise Schuerer officially retired from the Cite Lumiere Domestic Center, her life's work and passion. Olga Thissen will be the new administrator. The ceremony was marked with prayers and praises. The ladies of the Domestic Center served everyone a delicious supper complete with Gutwein popcorn. Johannes and Luise will be leaving Haiti in May for seven months, spending time in Germany and traveling and speaking to many of their supporting churches and congregations. They are such a fixture in this small community. We will certainly miss them!

Saturday, the Gutweins graciously let me join them for some beach time. On the way to Rainbow Beach, we stopped at the remains of a French fort. It's amazing to me how the history of Haiti has lain untouched for nearly 300 years. We walked right up the stone stairs of the old fort, touched the abandoned cannons, and wondered at the view the French must have had in defending this outpost near Zanglais. In the States, this kind of history would have been roped off to the public; we would be charged admission and shuttled through a gift shop afterwards. In any case, it was beautiful. The beach was great, as always. We got rained out around three and headed home. I spent a little time with the Gutweins that night, watching them play Rook. You know, each family has their own rules for Rook. The Gutweins don't use the 1's, put counters in the nest, and whoever wins the last trick gets to claim it. Weird. Joan Gutwein, Jan's sister, is here for a few weeks, and it's been great getting to know her face-to-face. She's funny, quick, and absolutely loves her nieces and nephews - and I got some of the Easter candy she brought, so thanks Joan!

Today has been relaxing. I listened to Bluffton services in the morning with Sheila. At lunch, we all gathered at the Gutweins and ate together - the Pfisters, Bob and Ann Meyer, Al and Becky Pfister, Shane Shaw, Bill Rager, the Reinhards, Sheila, and I, and all the Gutweins. I don't have any big plans for tonight, which is nice. I'm working on a baby blanket for Joe and Heidi, need to plant some new starts for my flower pots in the house, and prepare for next week.

Maybe this week will be spider free. One can always hope...

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Much love,
Abby

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Illavach and Easter

Dear Family and Friends,

It's been a very lovely week! Justin Reinhard and Ted Habegger were here until Saturday, and it was great to spend time with them in the evenings. They were installing the Pfister's kitchen and helping Tim and Joan with some closet work. Everything looks amazing!

On Tuesday and Wednesday, Sheila, Deb Blunier (visiting for a week), Tess, and Alisha, and I, had a holiday on Illavach, the island of the coast of Cayes. The sun was out, the water was perfectly clear, the food was terrific, and the company couldn't be beat! Check out the pictures because the water there was such an amazing color. In addition, the Abaka Bay resort has 900 American TV channels, air conditioning, lobster, leather couches, the most wonderful beach you've ever seen, and great service. It was truly an island getaway!

Good Friday, I tried to keep the kids entertained during the day, and Sheila and I hosted Justin and Ted for supper. Saturday was a getting-my-life-back-in-order day. Sunday morning, I attended an Easter Sunrise Service at the MEBSH gazebo. It was a beautiful morning and remembering the Resurrection was uplifting. After the service, I went to Renault with the Wrays.

It was a special Sunday at Renault. First, the children were shown a portion of the Jesus film in Creole. I was amazed that when Jesus was baptized in the film, the children cheered and clapped. When he was nailed to the cross, some of them gasped. They were really paying attention. In addition to the film, each child was given a bag of rice to take home. The Wrays kept it very orderly for dealing with 900 children. After Renault, Sheila and I ate Easter lunch with the Reinhards. It was delicious!

April seems to be going really fast because on Tuesday, the Pfisters arrive in Haiti! I'm so excited to see them again. I'll be praying for your safe arrival and adjustments in the first few weeks.

Well, I'm off to collect Easter leftovers from the Gutweins. I'm truly thankful that I live next door to a bunch of excellent cooks. They feed me all the time! Thanks, Gutweins.

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Much love,
Abby

Monday, April 6, 2009

Bob, Jr.


Dear Friends and Family,

I think I've mentioned Bob, the resident tarantula of Child Care. Well, today I met his son, Bob, Jr. Unfortunately, Bob, Jr. didn't make it through the day. Cresnel, our yard man, took a size 10 boot to him. Bye-bye, Bob, Jr.

I'm a little late this week. Those Haitian time schedules (or lack thereof) must be rubbing off on me. In any case, it's been a good week, and I'm looking forward to another good one. It's considered a holy week here. We only work a half day on Thursday and we're off for Good Friday. The Martins are planning a sunrise service on Easter Sunday, I'm going on an excursion for two days, and Uncle Ted and Justin Reinhard are here for the week. It should be fun!

Enjoy the photos. There are a couple graphic ones for those who have weaker stomachs - an infected eye and a cleft lip and palate.

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Happy Birthday, Molly!!!

Much love,
Abby

Sunday, March 29, 2009

A Little Place Called Denial



Dear Family and Friends,

I think it’s a sign. I saw this straw container today at the same instant that I heard her exact cell phone ring tone in the Nami. I had barely finished saying, “Awww...that’s my sister’s cell phone ring. That makes me so sad,” when I saw her name in blue and white right in front of my eyes. So, here’s a virtual shout out to my sister, Molly. Molly and Anthony very graciously allowed me stay in their home while I was back in the States. She let me drive her car, go to all the places I wanted to eat, and keep her daughter out of school periodically. Molly has always been a fantastic hostess! It’s one of her many and varied gifts. This just reminded me how much I love and miss her and all my family. I'm going to take this as a sign that I'm supposed to visit her again shortly, like July :) As is turns out, that's exactly what I'm doing anyway. Nicely played, Fate. Nicely played.

It hasn’t been a bad transition. The only time I really lost it is when my plane touched down in Port-au-Prince on Wednesday morning. I was sitting pretty comfortably in this little place called Denial. (It’s one of my favorite destination vacations. I often visit there and stay until a Reality plane comes and flies me out.) In any case, my travels went well. I flew to Ft. Lauderdale on Tuesday evening and “slept” in the airport. It didn’t take long for the automated update lady to drive me nuts. “The TSA warning code is orange. Please blah, blah, blah.” She must be the annoying cousin of Julie, the automated Amtrak lady. Anyway, the flights were fine, and thankfully, I was able to board the noon Tortug’ flight to Les Cayes. I went to church on Wednesday night and spent a little time with the Roanoke team. Thursday, I jumped right back into work. I have a little catching up to do but not so much that I feel overwhelmed.

Saturday, Sheila hosted a group of women that were here assisting the Domestic Center. She made a truly terrific broccoli and beef stir-fry with rice. She had mango, abricot, and pineapple for dessert. Ed and Jeni Schwartz are here for the week, and I took Jeni into town earlier (on my 4-wheeler!) to get a few items for different households. We bought the aforementioned pineapple together outside the market.

It’s been such a nice day today! I tagged along with Jon Zeller’s second work team to Torbeck church. We visited the LSM group home, ate at the Nami, made our way to Welch were LSM is assisting a group home for HIV positive children, and toured the beachfront there. Then, it was back to the Torbeck home for pictures and Frisbee and a quick trip home. I decided to stay home and get organized, but the rest of the team headed out to visit some old French plantation ruins.

I want to send out a sincere thank you to all of you praying saints that lift up missionaries around the globe. A quick story: Wednesday evening, Jan Gutwein was driving into his front yard to load up some materials in his truck. He noticed Joel, his almost two-year-old son playing in the front yard with a piece of hose. He didn’t think much of it and went inside to grab a set of keys from the house. He loaded his supplies in the truck, started the engine, and had just began to inch forward when he noticed a little piece of hose bobbing directly in front of his truck’s bumper as little Joel scrambled to get out of his way. Brothers and sisters, keep praying. But for the grace of God and the prayers of the saints, Jan would have run over his son. You are bridging the gap, calling down miracles and guardian angels, warring against the darkness, glorifying Jesus, and keeping us safe here in Haiti, even if by just a little piece of hose.

Thank you.

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Abby

Sunday, March 22, 2009

Hello...Goodbye.

Well, I’m officially a bad blogger. I leave for Haiti tomorrow and this is my first and only update from the States. It’s hard to blog when you’re busy living.

I’ll let my pictures tell the tales of the past four weeks. Here is a general event guideline:

Home on Feb. 18, off to Champaign to serve lunch with Joe and Heidi and check out the growing bump, Pokagon for three days (swimming, snacking, and games), Sophie turns 3 with a big party, presents, cakes, and family, play date with Habegger cousins, food packing for tornado victims at the BDC, day sewing with Grandma Gerber, chatting with friends at the Stoller’s house, family supper and picture, an evening with Grandma and Grandpa Habegger, Grace’s play at Kingdom Academy, watching Joe’s presentation on prayer at St. Luke’s, breakfast at the Snug, reunion with the cousins at Bekah’s house, St. Patty’s Day at J.K. O’Donnell’s, supper with the Pfisters, reminiscing with the Bluffton 2008 December work team, croquet at Grandma Gerber’s, buying tuna, quart sized bags, and canned cherries, packing and flying out March 24.

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Whew!

Thanks for the great time, everyone. I’ll see you all again in July. Now, off to pack.

Much love,
Abby